Imagine Saying What U Really Think! (archived post moved over from old blog)

Wednesday, April 04, 2007



Imagine Saying What U Really Think!!


Imagine just being honest and saying what you think….

How much easier would life be – no games and no bullshit!!

Instead of "So hey I do actually like you a lot "we skirt around it, not looking too eager …oh but also trying not to seem too distant either.Like Homer Simpson once said "Never say anything, unless you're sure everyone feels exactly the same way you do". That is kind of how we do things!!

Remember when you were in primary school….if you "loved" a boy you just told everyone…. Lachlan is my boyfriend and that was that!! (yes i did have a bf Lachlan).I guess each time your heart is broken or you break someone's heart, you become less and less open about these things!I get it, but I just wish it was different. I understand we all want to protect ourselves from rejection or hurt.
So instead, do we go through life missing out?

Girl likes guy. Guy likes girl. Both of them try and keep it casual, don't seem too interested. Girl thinks guy doesn't like her…starts to act even more distant. Guy thinks girl doesn't like him…starts to act even more distant… Neither one of them is going to budge.Outcome – they drift further and further away cause neither of them wants to get hurt, but what they don't realise is that both of them are actually interested. Girl starts seeing someone else. Guy cant understand why…but lucky he didn't say how he really felt, cause he thinks she was never really into him.

It all seems like such hard work…..

Apart from accidentally wetting your pants occasionally and getting hot peanut butter sandwiches in your lunch box, I think I'd rather be in primary school again and tell everyone that Lachlan is my boyfriend… and even when he chases me around the playground and then pulls my pony tail, I'll still lean over and plant one on his cheeks and he will wipe it away…..but as he wipes it, his little heart is beating a bit faster and he leans over and kisses me back…… the simplicity of it all is so refreshing!